To be a Muse for my man is the dream of many women. The best part of this dream, to achieve that it is quite possible if you follow a few rules.
A man can be as creative and enthusiastic, but without a woman to keep it up for a long time he is not always obtained. No wonder we are called “homemakers”. In this case, the focus is synonymous with inspiration. How to maintain and increase?
To rely on themselves and take responsibility for, to feel loved. To love yourself! Continue reading
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The anger in marital relationships:
Anger, like coins, have two sides. Each of them can lead to winning and losing. You can learn to use anger as a positive force in the marital relationship.
Irrational (unreasonable) anger starts with condemning thoughts, categorical judgments about their spouses. For example, the thought "my husband is selfish" quickly causes a feeling of anger. Irrational anger disappears from positive thoughts. Continue reading
Love and purposeful woman can work wonders. And well being and warmth in family relationships is always work and the merit of women. That she should only often is a colossal effort.
If a man shuts, he probably feels too much attention and pressure to the person. Reduce your speed, adjust the heat and turn your attention on yourself.
Attempts to talk, to understand in relationships with men usually cause negativity and stress, try to change their behavior and man will change. Continue reading
The relationship that we had with my husband before we moved to this wonderful island were amazing, you could even say, fabulous. Anyone who has seen our family, admired how harmoniously what they see and feel in contact with us. I worshipped her husband. He was everything to me.
He was the one for whom I wanted to live and I in any disaster of any scale, knew exactly what it was he for whom, whatever happens, I must survive, even in the catastrophe of a global nature. To survive for the sake of it even when all matter will rise and tell me that’s not possible.
When I looked into his eyes, there was the whole world and even the fact that I can not while to remember, but seeing this, realized that it is dear and necessary for me
When we arrived at this island of Hispaniola, everything has changed dramatically. Continue reading
Of family psychology published a lot of literature and family psychologists are constantly working on the issue of harmony in the relations between men and women in the family are given an optimal solution in communication. We already understand that men and women in the pair can speak different love languages (Gary Chapman “the Five Languages of Love” ), psychologists have studied the causes of divorce, reasons for change, the objects of fear and the correct interpretation of jealousy.
The relationship of men and women in couples are studied by many psychologists specializing matters of family psychology.
John gray has devoted more than a dozen years deep study of communication problems between “Marianini and Venerance”, You are probably familiar with his international bestseller “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”. “Men, women and relationships”. “Recipes happy relationship” Continue reading
When young people are thinking about the future together, and over time, the period of “romantic encounters” turns into family relationships . Upon marriage, each of the newlyweds draws mental pictures for yourself, which, he thinks, will accompany him during the subsequent years of harmonious family life. But the conflicts that accompany family relationships from the very first months of marriage, suggests that not everything is as simple and smooth as we would like. No wonder newlyweds at weddings older and more unworldly relatives I wish you patience. 202.JPG” /%
So why patience? The science of family psychology in recent years has gone far ahead and watching the many couples in the early formation of their relationship, came to the obvious conclusion.
It’s no secret that every argument to blame for both. In order to avoid the negative consequences of the first months of marriage, I advise at the stage before the wedding to reflect on yourself, on your desires and on the partner with whom you are planning to spend their future life.
The most common frustration that bring family relationships in the first months of marriage
It is revealing some of the negative qualities that are not evident in the partner in your brief moments of Dating. Some habits, stereotypes of behaviour in everyday life, some stable point of view on some things that you just couldn’t learn to living together, and Yes, even some personal intimate habits that you didn’t know. Such situations can be quite a lot. Here for spouses important is understanding and calm to refer to new “discoveries”, not drawing attention to them.
Time for family or for yourself?
It is difficult to overestimate the importance of your comfort zone, which should be in every man. Until the time marriage person manages their time freely, to no reporting back. But in the marriage have a little set aside their Hobbies and otherwise distribute personal time, literally taking away from his friends, and giving to your partner. This transition can be quite painful, because of mental adaptation of each individual. Don’t limit your partner only pastime with you: a little later, when your spouse is a little adaptable, he wants spending more and more time.
Are you ready for self family “swimming”?
Not less common situation is where a financial issue. Young people are used to living with the support or from her parents, now turned out to be “free swimming” and all of the decisions for the allocation of Finance fell on their shoulders. Well, if one or both spouses are sufficiently independent to overcome these moments, and if not? The lack of money in the family in most cases leads to a deep and protracted conflicts, which is sometimes very difficult to get out. And here begins a third, very important reason for conflicts – an appeal for help from the parents.
On one side the couple want to be independent, and they are unable or not yet ready psychologically to them (i.e., independent) to be. In this conflict it is important to put yourself in the place of her husband, to try to understand or even justify it.
Do not withdraw into yourself, and try all conflict, controversial and exciting questions to discuss calmly and in a timely manner, not “burying” them for their grievances and grudges. You may need a certain amount of courage or even the preparation for this conversation.
Try to be more tolerant of their half, taking the side of the partner, and not the parents .
Because at this stage a very strong love relationship isn’t ruined long-standing grievances, and therefore sometimes quite strong embrace and a passionate kiss to your family relationships “went to sea”, not stoores near the shore.
Not taking hasty decisions, even before marriage try to look closer to your partner, identifying in advance and gently smooth the issues that may affect you in future family life. If you have questions and doubts, anxiety or fears, family counseling psychologist and will help to avoid many errors and make your marriage is really strong and happy.
Seek professional advice, you will be able to get answers to the questions “How to distribute responsibilities in the house?”, “What “personal boundaries”, it is advisable to leave a partner, not absorbing it as a whole?”, “How to build the right relationship, dividing the roles of men and women in the family?” and many other exciting moments.