To obtain happiness need the mandatory presence of harmony and reciprocity in the relationship. It is impossible to get something without investing anything in return. What can I do to not feel lonely.
1. To overcome the vicissitudes of life, you need to stop your choice on the people close to you in character and values.
If your partner is weak and driven people, and you, in turn, is strong and independent and your spouse load you with their problems constantly, it is not necessary to wait, when all will fall into place by itself. Try to understand each other, to set the right priorities, do not take the extra load of problems partner, you not only risk not to deal with them, but may disappoint your partner. You can lose the inner connection between you. Create a family Council and to use it as often as possible. Continue reading
Love and purposeful woman can work wonders. And well being and warmth in family relationships is always work and the merit of women. That she should only often is a colossal effort.
If a man shuts, he probably feels too much attention and pressure to the person. Reduce your speed, adjust the heat and turn your attention on yourself.
Attempts to talk, to understand in relationships with men usually cause negativity and stress, try to change their behavior and man will change. Continue reading
But did you know that each of the trigrams of the Bagua has a “family” image? Let’s look at what this means.
Solid trait represents Yang energy and intermittent – energy Yin. A Yang trigram, if it is one or all three lines are solid. Otherwise trigram will be Yin.
Thus we get 4 Yang (male) trigrams and 4 Yin (female).
Trigram with all continuous traits has the most Yang energy and symbolizes the father. All the other trigrams, which are one Yang line – his sons.
If the solid feature of the trigram below – then is the eldest son
Solid feature of the trigrams in the middle – the middle son Continue reading
In recent years in the Russian Federation, the acute problem of social orphanhood. However, the General trend of increasing the number of care homes does not mean solving the problems of education and socialization of these children. The structure of the institutions, especially for their children contributes to the destruction of family ties, exacerbate feelings of loneliness, insecurity. To understand the situation it is necessary to consider socio-psychological portrait of the pupil of a boarding school who have an independent life. For most graduates of institutions characterized by undeveloped social intelligence (the ability to apply this knowledge in practice, ability to navigate in society and interact with it), dependency, lack of understanding of the material side of life. In fact, the ninth grade is for most young people last opportunity educational guidance in life. Continue reading
Having lived some time together, you begin to wonder, at what level are your relationship, isn’t it time for something to change in them. This test will help you to sort out your doubts. The test consists of two parts: for wife and husband. For each question, select one of three answers: “Yes”, “rarely”, “no”.
Questions for husband
1. Whether you spend at least half of their free time with his wife?
2. Do you use every opportunity to praise his wife, to Express their admiration for her?
3. Abstain if you compare wife with your mother or wife, another for cooking, farming, if the comparison is not in favor of your wife?
4. Do you show interest in the intellectual life of the wife, the books she reads, her addictions? Continue reading
Family relations – crises In General, the problems of the newly-married young people’s problems than those couples who have lived together for many years. As parents of very young children are faced with some difficulties, and parents of teenagers – with other and different problems arise between husband and wife depending on how many years they married. These problems are called familial crises, and to successfully overcome them, spouses need to learn to interact in new ways, and, depending on the changing flow of life and circumstances, to develop new rules of communication. Some problems the family decides easily; others can cause the glowing relationship. For example, in one family having a baby can cause conflicts and aggravation, in another of these difficulties may not be. Typical life situations, often provoking a crisis in relations: The appearance of the child The reasons for the deterioration of relations at this stage: · the Reluctance of couples to all appeared difficulties. · Postpartum depression of the mother. · the Need to rebuild only the well-established family relationships in a new way. · The jealousy of one of the spouses to the appearance of the child, who now pays almost all the attention. · conflicts between other relatives. After the birth of a child, two families, usually lumped even more. In the young family often visited by guests. Families may not converge in opinion, what name to give the child, how to raise it, and what to teach. · Domestic difficulties. The newly-minted parents have to learn to solve many new problems. Continue reading
When young people are thinking about the future together, and over time, the period of “romantic encounters” turns into family relationships . Upon marriage, each of the newlyweds draws mental pictures for yourself, which, he thinks, will accompany him during the subsequent years of harmonious family life. But the conflicts that accompany family relationships from the very first months of marriage, suggests that not everything is as simple and smooth as we would like. No wonder newlyweds at weddings older and more unworldly relatives I wish you patience. 202.JPG” /%
So why patience? The science of family psychology in recent years has gone far ahead and watching the many couples in the early formation of their relationship, came to the obvious conclusion.
It’s no secret that every argument to blame for both. In order to avoid the negative consequences of the first months of marriage, I advise at the stage before the wedding to reflect on yourself, on your desires and on the partner with whom you are planning to spend their future life.
The most common frustration that bring family relationships in the first months of marriage
It is revealing some of the negative qualities that are not evident in the partner in your brief moments of Dating. Some habits, stereotypes of behaviour in everyday life, some stable point of view on some things that you just couldn’t learn to living together, and Yes, even some personal intimate habits that you didn’t know. Such situations can be quite a lot. Here for spouses important is understanding and calm to refer to new “discoveries”, not drawing attention to them.
Time for family or for yourself?
It is difficult to overestimate the importance of your comfort zone, which should be in every man. Until the time marriage person manages their time freely, to no reporting back. But in the marriage have a little set aside their Hobbies and otherwise distribute personal time, literally taking away from his friends, and giving to your partner. This transition can be quite painful, because of mental adaptation of each individual. Don’t limit your partner only pastime with you: a little later, when your spouse is a little adaptable, he wants spending more and more time.
Are you ready for self family “swimming”?
Not less common situation is where a financial issue. Young people are used to living with the support or from her parents, now turned out to be “free swimming” and all of the decisions for the allocation of Finance fell on their shoulders. Well, if one or both spouses are sufficiently independent to overcome these moments, and if not? The lack of money in the family in most cases leads to a deep and protracted conflicts, which is sometimes very difficult to get out. And here begins a third, very important reason for conflicts – an appeal for help from the parents.
On one side the couple want to be independent, and they are unable or not yet ready psychologically to them (i.e., independent) to be. In this conflict it is important to put yourself in the place of her husband, to try to understand or even justify it.
Do not withdraw into yourself, and try all conflict, controversial and exciting questions to discuss calmly and in a timely manner, not “burying” them for their grievances and grudges. You may need a certain amount of courage or even the preparation for this conversation.
Try to be more tolerant of their half, taking the side of the partner, and not the parents .
Because at this stage a very strong love relationship isn’t ruined long-standing grievances, and therefore sometimes quite strong embrace and a passionate kiss to your family relationships “went to sea”, not stoores near the shore.
Not taking hasty decisions, even before marriage try to look closer to your partner, identifying in advance and gently smooth the issues that may affect you in future family life. If you have questions and doubts, anxiety or fears, family counseling psychologist and will help to avoid many errors and make your marriage is really strong and happy.
Seek professional advice, you will be able to get answers to the questions “How to distribute responsibilities in the house?”, “What “personal boundaries”, it is advisable to leave a partner, not absorbing it as a whole?”, “How to build the right relationship, dividing the roles of men and women in the family?” and many other exciting moments.
Modern society could not exist without ordered structure, which properly provides for “strength” and at the same time the flexibility of this system. The total area can unite people in the state, the General interest in the party and movement, etc. But each of these associations involves only part of the human personality and in a short period of time (sustained attention state to person is totalitarianism, and the self-sacrificing altruists are willing to give all for the sake of “business party” in history can be counted on the fingers). To combine the contradictory nature of human individuality and the public interest allows family. Like any social institution, the institution of marriage and the family the necessary a system of legal norms, which is a Family law (Family code).
In the new socio-economic and political conditions of development of the Russian society underwent major upgrading of the main branches of the law of our state, including civil and a closely related family. So from 1st March 1996 enacted a new Family code, which together with the Constitution and the Civil code of the Russian Federation, the Convention on the rights of the child and other international acts – is the main source of family law. Continue reading
Brachiolaria relationships are complex relationship of personal property and non-property character, based on kinship ties and regulated by the rules of civil (in the broad sense of the word) right. In many countries there is no family law as an independent branch of law, and family law relations are regulated by civil law (Germany, Switzerland, France). In most modern States separated from family law civil, codified and is an independent branch of law (Russian Federation, Algeria, Eastern Europe and Latin America). Continue reading