To obtain happiness need the mandatory presence of harmony and reciprocity in the relationship. It is impossible to get something without investing anything in return. What can I do to not feel lonely.
1. To overcome the vicissitudes of life, you need to stop your choice on the people close to you in character and values.
If your partner is weak and driven people, and you, in turn, is strong and independent and your spouse load you with their problems constantly, it is not necessary to wait, when all will fall into place by itself. Try to understand each other, to set the right priorities, do not take the extra load of problems partner, you not only risk not to deal with them, but may disappoint your partner. You can lose the inner connection between you. Create a family Council and to use it as often as possible. Continue reading
Love and purposeful woman can work wonders. And well being and warmth in family relationships is always work and the merit of women. That she should only often is a colossal effort.
If a man shuts, he probably feels too much attention and pressure to the person. Reduce your speed, adjust the heat and turn your attention on yourself.
Attempts to talk, to understand in relationships with men usually cause negativity and stress, try to change their behavior and man will change. Continue reading
But did you know that each of the trigrams of the Bagua has a “family” image? Let’s look at what this means.
Solid trait represents Yang energy and intermittent – energy Yin. A Yang trigram, if it is one or all three lines are solid. Otherwise trigram will be Yin.
Thus we get 4 Yang (male) trigrams and 4 Yin (female).
Trigram with all continuous traits has the most Yang energy and symbolizes the father. All the other trigrams, which are one Yang line – his sons.
If the solid feature of the trigram below – then is the eldest son
Solid feature of the trigrams in the middle – the middle son Continue reading
In recent years in the Russian Federation, the acute problem of social orphanhood. However, the General trend of increasing the number of care homes does not mean solving the problems of education and socialization of these children. The structure of the institutions, especially for their children contributes to the destruction of family ties, exacerbate feelings of loneliness, insecurity. To understand the situation it is necessary to consider socio-psychological portrait of the pupil of a boarding school who have an independent life. For most graduates of institutions characterized by undeveloped social intelligence (the ability to apply this knowledge in practice, ability to navigate in society and interact with it), dependency, lack of understanding of the material side of life. In fact, the ninth grade is for most young people last opportunity educational guidance in life. Continue reading
What is family conflict?
How to resolve conflicts between parents and children?
A great many Proverbs put people on family relationships: “according to the family, so goes the case very well”, “the family has the disorder, and the house is not happy”. Let’s see what the basis of family relationships. Continue reading
The relationship that we had with my husband before we moved to this wonderful island were amazing, you could even say, fabulous. Anyone who has seen our family, admired how harmoniously what they see and feel in contact with us. I worshipped her husband. He was everything to me.
He was the one for whom I wanted to live and I in any disaster of any scale, knew exactly what it was he for whom, whatever happens, I must survive, even in the catastrophe of a global nature. To survive for the sake of it even when all matter will rise and tell me that’s not possible.
When I looked into his eyes, there was the whole world and even the fact that I can not while to remember, but seeing this, realized that it is dear and necessary for me
When we arrived at this island of Hispaniola, everything has changed dramatically. Continue reading
Married, every woman dreams of that once and for all. Actually, a happy marriage and family relations is the result of conscious creativity. Happiness for two entirely depends on the woman, it is important to know a few everyday intricacies of family relationships and to use them skillfully. Should not expect in this business for a man, you are the creators of our own happiness. Any woman can “grow” the man of her dreams. But if not be sure to choose the perfect partner, try to practice living together before marriage. Here and start giving recipes how to preserve family relationships in perfect harmony: To do this, keep it in all endeavors, not criticize for failure, because only a confident man becomes successful. Family relationships becomes stronger, the husband and wife should live alone interests. Common Hobbies, about the same dynamics of development of individuals is the basis of family relations. Try to spend more time together, but also allow yourself to enjoy each other. Let the man and not excessively covet it. Dear ladies, remember, marriage — family relationships will become stronger if you learn to understand each other. Continue reading
Family relations – crises In General, the problems of the newly-married young people’s problems than those couples who have lived together for many years. As parents of very young children are faced with some difficulties, and parents of teenagers – with other and different problems arise between husband and wife depending on how many years they married. These problems are called familial crises, and to successfully overcome them, spouses need to learn to interact in new ways, and, depending on the changing flow of life and circumstances, to develop new rules of communication. Some problems the family decides easily; others can cause the glowing relationship. For example, in one family having a baby can cause conflicts and aggravation, in another of these difficulties may not be. Typical life situations, often provoking a crisis in relations: The appearance of the child The reasons for the deterioration of relations at this stage: · the Reluctance of couples to all appeared difficulties. · Postpartum depression of the mother. · the Need to rebuild only the well-established family relationships in a new way. · The jealousy of one of the spouses to the appearance of the child, who now pays almost all the attention. · conflicts between other relatives. After the birth of a child, two families, usually lumped even more. In the young family often visited by guests. Families may not converge in opinion, what name to give the child, how to raise it, and what to teach. · Domestic difficulties. The newly-minted parents have to learn to solve many new problems. Continue reading
Any family relationships is a long enough period of life of any person. Over time, people are getting used to each other, lapped. And even sometimes, some little thing, or hasty action can thoroughly ruin family relationships. First appear small quarrel, then scandals, and some couples, showing patience, bring it to the divorce. But agree, better to have in family life, such moments were rare, and it is better, if did not exist. Family same create not to destroy. The hearth needs to warm its members, and in any case not to push. Therefore, permanently you need to improve the relationship. How to improve relationships? Sometimes it’s not easy. But when the necessary efforts to overcome the crisis. And this applies not only to family relationships. Often, this concerns relations with parents, and with children, and if you are not married, with your half. And how to do it, discuss right now. Continue reading
The same as any human communication. building a healthy family relationship is a process, and laborious and sometimes difficult, but the most important is continuous. If up to a certain stage in your relationship developed by themselves, without apparent effort of the partners, do not think that with the establishment of the family all continues in the same vein. Unfortunately, there are many sad examples of the effect of the passive way of building relationships. Moving in together, getting married, having kids – all major steps in the life of both partners, but behind them are millions of small steps, through which you can create and maintain for years of healthy family relationships.
There are basic rules of healthy families, exploring and applying that in practice, you will see significant changes for the better, will discover new facets of family relationships and realize that a family can turn into an amazing journey of a lifetime. Let us rather look at them!
1: family relations should be distance Continue reading